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July 28, 2017

Schoolgirl commits suicide at shool due to racist bullies abusing her.

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Dagmara Przybysz, 16, who moved to the UK with her family nine years ago, died at her school, Pool academy in Redruth, Cornwall. She had previously been told she “did not belong here”.

Dagmara was described as a beautiful, happy and popular pupil who had an extremely bright future and planned to study photography at college. But the inquest heard she had confided to friends and family that she had been singled out because of her nationality by bullies who called her a 'stupid Pole' and told her she “did not belong here”.

Her mother, Ewelina Przybysz, said she understood her daughter had been having a problem with one girl who had 'called Dagmara names' I don’t know exactly what was said,” she said. “This incident occurred only a few days before Dagmara passed away.”

She said Dagmara had been subjected to racist insults in the past but added that she believed her daughter’s problems went wider. Dagmara’s boyfriend, Lewis Simpson, told the inquest that he thought she had been affected by racist comments, saying: “I think it got to her a little bit.”

The alarm was raised when Dagmara failed to turn up for a lesson. A postmortem found she died as a result of hanging.

Ewelina Przybysz told the inquest Dagmara had spoken to her about problems she was having at school. 'She told me she would have comments such as ‘stupid Pole’. Comments were made towards another Polish child and Dagmara would always try to stand up to them. She commented she did not like it when someone was nasty behind her back. She often talked about problems and she was often hurt when people said unpleasant things.'

The inquest also heard about an incident in a PE lesson that left Dagmara very upset the day before she died.

She fell out with pupils during a rounders game and needed medical treatment after striking a wall in frustration. Her mother said: 'She punched a wall so she could get away from these girls and the school.' 

Przybysz also mentioned a post her daughter made on the social network site Ask.fm: “She wrote on Ask.fm in answer to a question about what problems she had at school. Dagmara wrote ‘racism’.”

Lewis Simpson told the inquest: 'When I saw her on Monday, she was agitated at what happened in PE. She said: ‘What would you do if I killed myself? I did not take it seriously, as I thought was just worked up by hurting her hand.'

A school friend, who cannot be named for reasons, also told the inquest Dagmara had been targeted by racist bullies. She said: 'I used to sit next to her in class. She told me when year 10 [aged 14-15] girls said she ‘did not belong here’. I told her to report this.'

Dagmara’s father, Jedrzej Przybysz, said that on the morning of her death he received a phone call from his daughter. 'She was upset and crying and did not want to tell me the reason, Later on, she said she had problems at school that she said I would not understand. I told her to go to school and on return we would have a serious conversation about this problem.'

Przybysz said his daughter had made many friends at primary school since coming to the UK in February 2009 but had not settled at secondary school and asked to move.

Dagmara’s uncle, Tomasz Dobek, took her to hospital after she hurt her hand in the PE lesson.

He told the inquest: “We saw two girls on the pavement and Dagmara said: ‘Uncle, can you run them over.’ She told me she had hurt her hand while punching the wall as some girls had laughed at her because she could not play the game properly.'


Full Article: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2017/jul/17/schoolgirl-dagmara-przybysz-16-killed-herself-racist-bullying-inquest-told

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Imagine if this was your daughter and yet so many people still defend bullying.
^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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frozenshock 1 week ago#2
UnfairRepresent posted...
she had confided to friends and family


Sad, but at least she had friends and family to confide to.

Lots of people who are bullied don't even have that
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scorpion41 1 week ago#3
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.
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UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#4
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but

*sigh*
^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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Behaviorism 1 week ago#5
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble
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Behaviorism posted...
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


Worth it.
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Darkman124 1 week ago#7
Behaviorism posted...
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


that is pretty much an empty threat designed to keep the kids who follow the education routines in line and avoid them creating conflicts that are harder for the schools to deal with

parents can get involved and force schools to take action but it requires a significant commitment to action on their part

or kids can simply take matters into their own hands with the understanding their parents support them
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frozenshock 1 week ago#8
Behaviorism posted...
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


Happened to me a few times

I was like 11 years old, even younger. I'd get beaten up by a bunch of other kids, and then they'd tell the teacher I started it and I was the only one who got detention

Basically, I'd be in detention for getting beaten up
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awesome999 1 week ago#9
Behaviorism posted...
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble

They could expel my kid and I'd be proud of him for standing up for himself
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Melonfarms 1 week ago#10
Racism against polish people is still a thing? I though that was something from a time before I was born.
This sounds unfortunate. Bullies are awful.
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Milkman5 1 week ago#11
I don't get it. She's white isn't she?
Iodine 1 week ago#12
I was super confused until I realized that in Europe they tend to hold nationality above race.
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UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#13
Melonfarms posted...
Racism against polish people is still a thing? I though that was something from a time before I was born.
This sounds unfortunate. Bullies are awful.

You've never been to the UK,

Polish people there are treated like Mexicans in the US only much worse.
^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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Milkman5 1 week ago#14
isn't this nationalism not racism?
PG_Era 1 week ago#15
UnfairRepresent posted...
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but

*sigh*


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Conflict 1 week ago#16
Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
Behaviorism posted...
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


Worth it.


It's rarely worth getting 2 weeks suspension and having your GPA suffer for it

Fighting back is always admirable but people need to stop acting like it lacks consequences
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UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#17
Conflict posted...
Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
Behaviorism posted...
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


Worth it.


It's rarely worth getting 2 weeks suspension and having your GPA suffer for it

Fighting back is always admirable but people need to stop acting like it lacks consequences

It's also dumb anyway.

She's a 16 year old girl with potentially 1 other also female polish friend.

6 boys come up and call her a Dumb Pole **** Slut who doesn't belong.

And your advice is make a fist and deck one in the chin? 

Good luck with that.

Even if it's one other girl and she punches her, then what happens? As stated suspensions or expelled hurting her education. And now you have a less or unedcated person who is violent. Doesn't end well.

Hell responding to bullies period with "Why didn't the victim just punch them!?" reflects a horrible attitude in the first place IMO.
^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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So did we go back to WW2? Next you are going to tell me the UK still bullies Irish kids... oh wait they do.

Poor girl Polish people are awesome.
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QassTank 1 week ago#19
I mean s***... Even not fighting back can have consequences if the bullies are really out to get you.

I was hospitalized multiple times, but the people doing it always got off scott free because they had 8-10 witnesses say that I threw the first punch, despite never even hitting them. I was attacked with a variety of weapons from being stabbed with freshly sharpened pencils to baseball bats.

And I always told the teachers and principal who did it when I could, but it was my word against 8-10 other students, so the school suspended me longer because "I started it".

The only time I didn't get in trouble for "starting it" was when the kid didn't realize a teacher was watching and grabbed me by the throat, slammed me against the wall, and started punching me in the side. I still got suspended because of the "zero tolerance for fighting" policy. <_<

This was in elementary school, so 5th grade at most. <_<
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mattnd2007 1 week ago#20
The poor girl. People in general are awful. But teenagers are like the worst in some ways.
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UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#21
AwesomeOSauce posted...
So did we go back to WW2? Next you are going to tell me the UK still bullies Irish kids... oh wait they do.

Poor girl Polish people are awesome.

Erm..

Poland and the UK were on the same side in WW2... In fact that's (arguably) how WW2 started.
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DirkDiggles 1 week ago#22
UnfairRepresent posted...
Hell responding to bullies period with "Why didn't the victim just punch them!?" reflects a horrible attitude in the first place IMO.


You know damn well that schools don't do s*** and parents can't do s***. 

A person can only take so much before they break. You are acting like they should become doormats to these bullies.

As a person who was bullied in school, you want to know what worked? Standing up for yourself. Bullies like to pick the lowest hanging fruit afterall.
Fony 1 week ago#23
Melonfarms posted...
Racism against polish people is still a thing? I though that was something from a time before I was born.
This sounds unfortunate. Bullies are awful.


UK people do no treat eastern Europeans as the same race. Actually when i went there i was hanging out with a few German girls and people called them Nazis.
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UnfairRepresent posted...
AwesomeOSauce posted...
So did we go back to WW2? Next you are going to tell me the UK still bullies Irish kids... oh wait they do.

Poor girl Polish people are awesome.

Erm..

Poland and the UK were on the same side in WW2... In fact that's (arguably) how WW2 started.


IT doesn't matter if they were on the same side. Polish people got s*** on by everybody back then in Europe. Thats what I mean't with back to WW2. Even in America when Polish immigrants came over they were viewed badly.
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Melonfarms 1 week ago#25
Y'all aren't making the UK sound like a very tolerant place.
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UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#27
Melonfarms posted...
Y'all aren't making the UK sound like a very tolerant place.

Ever heard of Brexit?
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QassTank posted...
I mean s***... Even not fighting back can have consequences if the bullies are really out to get you.

I was hospitalized multiple times, but the people doing it always got off scott free because they had 8-10 witnesses say that I threw the first punch, despite never even hitting them. I was attacked with a variety of weapons from being stabbed with freshly sharpened pencils to baseball bats.

And I always told the teachers and principal who did it when I could, but it was my word against 8-10 other students, so the school suspended me longer because "I started it".

The only time I didn't get in trouble for "starting it" was when the kid didn't realize a teacher was watching and grabbed me by the throat, slammed me against the wall, and started punching me in the side. I still got suspended because of the "zero tolerance for fighting" policy. <_<

This was in elementary school, so 5th grade at most. <_<

Yeah if that happened to me I would've been jumping someone after school js
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DevsBro 1 week ago#30
had an extremely bright future and planned to study photography at college

This reminds me of that towel that was both soaked and dry
Kitt 1 week ago#31
"I think it got to her a little bit.”

Really now?
eston 1 week ago#32
Sativa_Rose 1 week ago#33
Wow, that is very sad
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Sativa_Rose 1 week ago#34
mattnd2007 posted...
The poor girl. People in general are awful. But teenagers are like the worst in some ways.


When you are a teen you cannot escape, you are forced to be put in this s***ty hothouse of other teenagers where you are told your future depends on it
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Sativa_Rose posted...
mattnd2007 posted...
The poor girl. People in general are awful. But teenagers are like the worst in some ways.
When you are a teen you cannot escape, you are forced to be put in this s***ty hothouse of other teenagers where you are told your future depends on it
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UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#36
eston posted...
How is her last name pronounced?

Best bet for an American trying to say it?

Try saying "Pray-Bish" Or "Pray-Bayssh"
^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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ZeldaMutant 1 week ago#37
More blood on Brexit's hands.
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WonkyKong 1 week ago#38
I think the parents should take a big chunk of blame too.
They were clearly not close enough with their daughter to understand what was going on.
A father should get the kids name, and meet them off school grounds.
DKFjalfe 1 week ago#39
WonkyKong posted...
I think the parents should take a big chunk of blame too.
They were clearly not close enough with their daughter to understand what was going on.
A father should get the kids name, and meet them off school grounds.

You aren't very bright.
WonkyKong 1 week ago#40
DKFjalfe posted...
WonkyKong posted...
I think the parents should take a big chunk of blame too.
They were clearly not close enough with their daughter to understand what was going on.
A father should get the kids name, and meet them off school grounds.

You aren't very bright.

And you sound like an a****** tbqh.
NurseRedHeart posted...
How to pronounce that last name? So many z's and y's.


The real question at hand
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UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#42
2SweetforTurtle posted...
NurseRedHeart posted...
How to pronounce that last name? So many z's and y's.


The real question at hand

UnfairRepresent posted...

Best bet for an American trying to say it?

Try saying "Pray-Bish" Or "Pray-Bayssh"
^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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emblem boy 1 week ago#44
WonkyKong posted...
I think the parents should take a big chunk of blame too.
They were clearly not close enough with their daughter to understand what was going on.
A father should get the kids name, and meet them off school grounds.


And do what to them?
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Annihilated 1 week ago#45
scorpion41 posted...
I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.


Doesn't work like that. You throw a punch and you get suspended. Schools never punish the real bullies.
Duncanwii 1 week ago#46
WonkyKong posted...
I think the parents should take a big chunk of blame too.
They were clearly not close enough with their daughter to understand what was going on.
A father should get the kids name, and meet them off school grounds.

And then her father's in jail for assault. Good job.
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Unfair, I'm curious as to what solution you would have given her.
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UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#48
Wedge Antilles posted...
Unfair, I'm curious as to what solution you would have given her.

She's dead. There is no "solution" to that, it's too late now.
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    Punching bullies definitely worked out much better for me personally. But whatever.

    The UK is racist as s*** and it's awful.
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    Taharqa_ 1 week ago#53
    frozenshock posted...
    Behaviorism posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

    You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


    Happened to me a few times

    I was like 11 years old, even younger. I'd get beaten up by a bunch of other kids, and then they'd tell the teacher I started it and I was the only one who got detention

    Basically, I'd be in detention for getting beaten up


    I guess when I was coming up there was more leniency when it came to students defending themselves. 

    I remember getting into a fight with a guy that was trying to bully me, I guess he thought I was afraid of him or reluctant to defend myself because everyone else in school was scared of him. This went on for about a week until he tried his luck in gym and I beat the s*** out of him. 

    He got in trouble, I didn't, and the coach actually said that he was "waiting for somebody to kick his ass".
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    UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#54
    Taharqa_ posted...
    frozenshock posted...
    Behaviorism posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

    You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


    Happened to me a few times

    I was like 11 years old, even younger. I'd get beaten up by a bunch of other kids, and then they'd tell the teacher I started it and I was the only one who got detention

    Basically, I'd be in detention for getting beaten up


    I guess when I was coming up there was more leniency when it came to students defending themselves. 

    I remember getting into a fight with a guy that was trying to bully me, I guess he thought I was afraid of him or reluctant to defend myself because everyone else in school was scared of him. This went on for about a week until he tried his luck in gym and I beat the s*** out of him. 

    He got in trouble, I didn't, and the coach actually said that he was "waiting for somebody to kick his ass".

    your coach would be fired today if that comment got made public
    ^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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    s***'s giving me flashbacks to my middle school years

    I remember all the countless times I had my ass beat and the teachers and other school staff mostly just stood there and watched and often times I'd get in trouble as well because of "zero tolerance" bulls***

    Wasn't til highschool when I got into hardcore metal that I finally started standing up for myself, I got my ass beat just as much from fighting back as not but at the same time I got a few good shots in and they realized I wasn't as easy of a target as I once was and it eventually stopped
    Duncanwii 1 week ago#56
    My little sister is convinced that bullies that beat people up for no reason don't exist and are made up by Hollywood because "that sort of stuff doesn't happen in real life."
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    Conflict 1 week ago#57
    KiwiTerraRizing posted...
    Contrary to popular belief bullies don't back down when stood up to, they are violent and will get more violent.


    Depends on the bully

    But yea what a lot of peeps babbling on about how "you gotta stand up for yourself" don't realize is that there's no way this petite girl was gonna stand up to a group of guys. Only way she was gonna get left alone was if the bullies got actual punishment or if she got relocated to another school. Some situations are just unsalvagable by your own hands. Teenagers are garbage like that
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    Sativa_Rose 1 week ago#58
    ZombiePelican posted...
    I remember all the countless times I had my ass beat and the teachers and other school staff mostly just stood there and watched and often times I'd get in trouble as well because of "zero tolerance" bulls***


    It's so sad how many young boys get bullied, only to get bullied again by the teachers and administrators who are suppose to be protecting them
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    Bloodychess 1 week ago#59
    Conflict posted...
    Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
    Behaviorism posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

    You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


    Worth it.


    It's rarely worth getting 2 weeks suspension and having your GPA suffer for it

    Fighting back is always admirable but people need to stop acting like it lacks consequences

    Suspended for 2 weeks or harassed for 4 years.
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    luigi33 1 week ago#60
    That's said tragedy. Major condolences to the family. f*** all racist and bigots
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    UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#61
    Sativa_Rose posted...
    ZombiePelican posted...
    I remember all the countless times I had my ass beat and the teachers and other school staff mostly just stood there and watched and often times I'd get in trouble as well because of "zero tolerance" bulls***


    It's so sad how many young boys get bullied, only to get bullied again by the teachers and administrators who are suppose to be protecting them

    :(
    ^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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    Sativa_Rose posted...
    ZombiePelican posted...
    I remember all the countless times I had my ass beat and the teachers and other school staff mostly just stood there and watched and often times I'd get in trouble as well because of "zero tolerance" bulls***


    It's so sad how many young boys get bullied, only to get bullied again by the teachers and administrators who are suppose to be protecting them


    Schools here are so understaffed and underfunded that often times, teachers and staff don't get paid enough to remotely care, only things that get any real funding amd care from the staff are sports programs god help you if you do something to hurt a sports star at my school 

    I remember I got in trouble once after a football player injured his hand beating my ass, and I was the one who got in the most trouble. And the football coach used homophobic slurs to describe me my entire 8th grade year.
    UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#63
    ZombiePelican posted...


    Schools here are so understaffed and underfunded that often times, teachers and staff don't get paid enough to remotely care, only things that get any real funding amd care from the staff are sports programs god help you if you do something to hurt a sports star at my school

    A lot of teachers care, they just have zero power
    ^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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    Duncanwii 1 week ago#64
    ZombiePelican posted...
    Sativa_Rose posted...
    ZombiePelican posted...
    I remember all the countless times I had my ass beat and the teachers and other school staff mostly just stood there and watched and often times I'd get in trouble as well because of "zero tolerance" bulls***


    It's so sad how many young boys get bullied, only to get bullied again by the teachers and administrators who are suppose to be protecting them


    Schools here are so understaffed and underfunded that often times, teachers and staff don't get paid enough to remotely care, only things that get any real funding amd care from the staff are sports programs god help you if you do something to hurt a sports star at my school 

    I remember I got in trouble once after a football player injured his hand beating my ass, and I was the one who got in the most trouble. And the football coach used homophobic slurs to describe me my entire 8th grade year.

    You should have reported him.
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    E32005 1 week ago#65
    That sounds like an overreaction. Just ignore them.
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    Conflict 1 week ago#67
    Bloodychess posted...
    Conflict posted...
    Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
    Behaviorism posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

    You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


    Worth it.


    It's rarely worth getting 2 weeks suspension and having your GPA suffer for it

    Fighting back is always admirable but people need to stop acting like it lacks consequences

    Suspended for 2 weeks or harassed for 4 years.


    As explained already throughout this topic, 'standing up for yourself' doesn't always 'end' harassment

    It's admirable but it doesn't guarantee ideal results and that's the reality that a lot of you are ignoring
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    Behaviorism posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.
    You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble
    Worth it.
    It's rarely worth getting 2 weeks suspension and having your GPA suffer for it

    Fighting back is always admirable but people need to stop acting like it lacks consequences

    Suspended for 2 weeks or harassed for 4 years.
    As explained already throughout this topic, 'standing up for yourself' doesn't always 'end' harassment

    It's admirable but it doesn't guarantee ideal results and that's the reality that a lot of you are ignoring
    But isn't it worth it to try, even once? What if you've already tried "just ignoring them" and "reporting them to the teacher" 50 times each? Will you not fight back because that might not work either?
    I'm not very good at this...
    (edited 1 week ago)quote
    Duncanwii posted...

    You should have reported him.

    And do what? Put an even bigger target on my back for being snitch on top of that? Even if I would have nothing would have changed except my beatings would have gotten more severe 

    Dude you don't understand how terrible the NOLA public school system is
    Duncanwii 1 week ago#70
    ZombiePelican posted...
    Duncanwii posted...

    You should have reported him.

    And do what? Put an even bigger target on my back for being snitch on top of that? Even if I would have nothing would have changed except my beatings would have gotten more severe 

    Dude you don't understand how terrible the NOLA public school system is

    Homophobic slurs, especially coming from a teacher, are unacceptable in a learning environment. If I was in charge his ass would be on the street before he could blink.
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    Duncanwii posted...
    ZombiePelican posted...
    Duncanwii posted...
    You should have reported him.
    And do what? Put an even bigger target on my back for being snitch on top of that? Even if I would have nothing would have changed except my beatings would have gotten more severe 

    Dude you don't understand how terrible the NOLA public school system is
    Homophobic slurs, especially coming from a teacher, are unacceptable in a learning environment. If I was in charge his ass would be on the street before he could blink.
    Unfortunately, you're not in charge, and most of the people who are in charge aren't as passionate as you.
    I'm not very good at this...
    scorpion41 1 week ago#72
    Conflict posted...
    Bloodychess posted...
    Conflict posted...
    Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
    Behaviorism posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

    You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


    Worth it.


    It's rarely worth getting 2 weeks suspension and having your GPA suffer for it

    Fighting back is always admirable but people need to stop acting like it lacks consequences

    Suspended for 2 weeks or harassed for 4 years.


    As explained already throughout this topic, 'standing up for yourself' doesn't always 'end' harassment

    It's admirable but it doesn't guarantee ideal results and that's the reality that a lot of you are ignoring


    It may not end it, but it makes the bully look like an even bigger ass when they keep doing it in spite of it. Not standing up is way worse than sitting back and taking it.
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    Conflict 1 week ago#73
    Lol you think people care about how bullies look? I got some bad news for you.
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    UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#74
    scorpion41 posted...


    It may not end it, but it makes the bully look like an even bigger ass when they keep doing it in spite of it. Not standing up is way worse than sitting back and taking it.

    ^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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    AmonAmarth 1 week ago#75
    in the UK its more politically correct to attack Eastern Europeans,
    because they are Europeans and you wont get in as much trouble.

    Which is disgusting because the Poles played a significant role in helping UK in BoB.

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    AmonAmarth 1 week ago#76
    E32005 posted...
    Blame brexit


    There were similar stories before Brexit.
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    UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#77
    AmonAmarth posted...
    E32005 posted...
    Blame brexit


    There were similar stories before Brexit.

    And Brexit legitimized them
    ^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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    Xeno14 1 week ago#78
    Conflict posted...
    Anarchy_Juiblex posted...
    Behaviorism posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

    You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


    Worth it.


    It's rarely worth getting 2 weeks suspension and having your GPA suffer for it

    Fighting back is always admirable but people need to stop acting like it lacks consequences

    i got 4 weeks because i choked him out and kicked him in the ribs while he was unconscious. gpa didn't suffer but goddamn did my social status plummet
    Taharqa_ 1 week ago#79
    UnfairRepresent posted...
    Taharqa_ posted...
    frozenshock posted...
    Behaviorism posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but my daughter will know how to whip someone's ass instead of being a victim. My only regret from high school is that I didn't fight back against mine.

    You couldn't. You fight back and you get into trouble


    Happened to me a few times

    I was like 11 years old, even younger. I'd get beaten up by a bunch of other kids, and then they'd tell the teacher I started it and I was the only one who got detention

    Basically, I'd be in detention for getting beaten up


    I guess when I was coming up there was more leniency when it came to students defending themselves. 

    I remember getting into a fight with a guy that was trying to bully me, I guess he thought I was afraid of him or reluctant to defend myself because everyone else in school was scared of him. This went on for about a week until he tried his luck in gym and I beat the s*** out of him. 

    He got in trouble, I didn't, and the coach actually said that he was "waiting for somebody to kick his ass".

    your coach would be fired today if that comment got made public


    Eh, not really. I graduated in 2003 and our coaches cursed like sailors, as long as they didn't drop the f-bomb it was ok. It hasn't changed since I've been back to watch sports games.
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    lukabrosci 1 week ago#80
    Sad...but do any of you have a "solution?"

    Not everyone is gonna like you, she had a boyfriend. Thats probably one more friend than many "losers" ever had in school.
    mario2000 1 week ago#81
    The solution to bullying is to teach people not to raise s***ty kids.
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    lukabrosci 1 week ago#82
    in other words utopia

    everyone raise little angels and we'll sing and dance everyone will be friends with everyone
    UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#83
    lukabrosci
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    Currently defending bullying in one topic and being anti-vacination in the other.


    Wonder whose alt it is
    ^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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    lukabrosci 1 week ago#84
    just someone who can speak the real in this land of phonies
    DreadedWave 1 week ago#85
    lukabrosci posted...
    just someone who can speak stupid nonsense

    FTFY
    knutjob 1 week ago#86
    eston posted...
    How is her last name pronounced?


    Pz-yi-bish

    Kinda it's hard to explain how to say the rz. Imagine a sound imitating a lawnmower. The secret to improving polish pronunciation is not to emphasise the first sound of a word but the second.

    I hate stuff like this. I have two polish kids and am the moment am relocating closer to London for work. There are towns I flat refuse to consider moving to because of the nationalist scumbag groups that reside in them and I feel like I have to make up reasons so I don't scare my wife. People in the UK are generally positive about poles, even if often for stupid reasons, it's just the chav class who need people to blame for why they're still scraping the bottom of the barrel.
    LordMarshal 1 week ago#87
    I dont understand suicide as a result of bullying. When i had something like this happen in high school i stopped going and from there my parents looked into options so i went to another school.

    I just dont understand not exploring all options before you figure suicides the right answer.
    There can be only one.
    Pastryarchy 1 week ago#88
    LordMarshal posted...
    I dont understand suicide as a result of bullying. When i had something like this happen in high school i stopped going and from there my parents looked into options so i went to another school.

    I just dont understand not exploring all options before you figure suicides the right answer.

    A teenager will see less options available than an experienced adult would.

    Teens only know what they've been introduced to. If no one more experienced steps in and says "hey, try this instead", the teen will rarely find their own way to that solution in time. It's very human for a young impressionable person to panic while having difficulty escaping torment and consider extremes when they don't know what else to do yet. They are much more emotionally vulnerable than an adult.

    Teens who are not are a minority.
    guess this goes to show that bad things do happen to gorgeous people as well as normal looking people
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    UnfairRepresent 1 week ago#91
    darkphoenix181 posted...
    guess this goes to show that bad things do happen to gorgeous people as well as normal looking people

    ...
    ^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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    UnfairRepresent posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but

    *sigh*
    Drrobotniks 1 week ago#93
    BallerXRosetta- posted...
    UnfairRepresent posted...
    scorpion41 posted...
    I don't condone bullying, but

    *sigh*

    Yea reading is hard
    TheFuzz3451 6 days ago#94
    I think the worst part about bullying is when in elementary school you had those well meaning but idiotic anti-bullying seminars that were just like "oh no the bullies are sad inside, they're just sad people who are hurting!"

    nah. Some people are just pieces of s***, and just want to hurt people cause it's fun. These folks tend to become adults and live normal functioning lives
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    I feel bad for her but the girl had friends, family, and a boyfriend that she talked to about things and confided in... Most people who commit suicide due to bullying would love to have a good stable home life to discuss things with their family, or have friends, or a bf/gf to talk to, let alone all 3. There was so much opportunity for her to ask for help or for people to notice.
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    UnfairRepresent 6 days ago#96
    RockRapDubstep posted...
    I feel bad for her but

    *sigh*
    ^ Hey now that's completely unfair.
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    Drrobotniks 6 days ago#97
    UnfairRepresent posted...
    RockRapDubstep posted...
    I feel bad for her but

    *sigh*

    Drrobotniks posted...
    Yea reading is hard
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    UnfairRepresent posted...
    RockRapDubstep posted...
    I feel bad for her but

    *sigh*

    I'm just saying that she had a lot of chances to seek help herself or for the people she had in her life to notice that she needed help, yet neither of those things happened. I'm not saying she did anything wrong or that it was her fault or anything, just that it's really sad that she had so many options and so much potential to get help yet this was still the outcome.
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